This isn’t your grandma’s therapy

(unless she was a boundary setting badass)

Holistic, Anti-BS, and Actually Helpful

My approach is holistic, trauma-informed, and rooted in both the science of the nervous system and the messy beauty of being human. I use bottom-up and top-down methods, blending somatic work with Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for both individuals and couples—so whether you're crying in the shower or arguing over the dishes, I’ve got you. I’m committed to therapy that’s decolonized, non-religious, and radically affirming—none of that shamey, prescriptive nonsense here. Basically, I help people untangle their pain and reconnect with themselves (and each other) without losing their weird.

Because Identity Isn’t a Diagnosis

I believe gender and sexuality are expansive, sacred, and definitely not up for debate. I work with queer and trans individuals, couples, teens, and families to untangle internalized shame, navigate identity with pride, and create safer relationships rooted in truth. Whether you’re coming out, transitioning, parenting a queer kid, or just trying to feel like yourself in a world that keeps making that harder—I’m here for it. This space is radically affirming, politically aware, and deeply human (with zero room for judgment, binaries, or moral panic).

Individual Counseling

In our one-on-one counseling sessions, you'll find a safe and supportive space to explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Whether you're navigating life's challenges, seeking personal growth, or simply needing someone to listen, our individual counseling sessions are tailored to help you find clarity, resilience, and empowerment.

Couples Counseling

Relationships thrive on communication, understanding, and connection. In couples counseling sessions I provide a nurturing environment where you and your partner can explore your dynamics, strengthen your bond, and develop tools to navigate challenges together. Whether you're facing conflicts, seeking to deepen intimacy, or aiming to reignite the spark, let us support you on your journey towards a happier, healthier partnership.

Gender & Sex Therapy

At Sonder, I offer gender and sex therapy services that honor and celebrate the diverse identities and experiences of my clients. Whether you're exploring your gender identity, navigating sexual concerns, or seeking support for issues related to intimacy and relationships, our gender and sex therapy sessions provide a compassionate and affirming space for you to explore, express, and embrace your authentic self. Let's work together to foster empowerment, understanding, and fulfillment in your journey towards sexual and gender well-being."